I just went on Facebook.com and I don't really see many herpes support groups that are known. Sometimes herpes support groups could be hard to find. If you send me your zip code I'll at least make an attempt to locate a support group. I think social gatherings and events for people with STDs are more common than support groups. Online dating has grown a lot and is still growing.
If you have any issues you want to talk about let me know. Sometimes it also helps to discuss you issues with a good therapist